Divorce Attorney to Erotic Monogamy?

“We were on our way to divorce, had even visited a divorce attorney a few weeks before, and then we ran into this unique marriage-saving program.“


Imagine the feelings that that must’ve been going through the husband and wife’s mind from the quote above.


They had made up their mind they were divorcing, had visited with a divorce attorney, and just before signing papers heard about a unique program that had helped many couples stay together.


At first, they were skeptical… As anyone should be! But wait to you hear what happens next.


For the past 30 years, number one best selling author, counselor, minister David Essel has been helping to save marriages, to help turn around so many relationships that we’re going down the drain.


Below, David shares one story from several of his clients that might just change your mind, as it changed theirs.


”For over 30 years as a counselor, minister, I cannot even count how many couples I’ve worked with that we’re on the verge of divorce… That were saved… Now we don’t save 100% of couples on the verge of divorce, simply because some people should divorce.


If there’s ongoing addiction, emotional abuse, physical abuse these will be reasons, justifiable reasons to divorce.


But so many of the couples that I’ve worked with, their current frustration with their partner was based on resentments from the past they’ve never cleared up… Expectations that they’ve never shared … Desires and interests even in the bedroom that they’ve never talked about.


So in 1997 I started a very unique program for couples, focused on erotic love.


The type of love that gets your heart pumping fast, your body responding in wild ways, and regardless of how long you’ve been married, once you tap into this erotic side of life, monogamy is easy.


After using this program with so many people I decided to put it in our brand new top-selling book, “50+ Flavors of Erotic Love… Leaving the vanilla world for ecstasy!“, To reach more people than I ever could help one on one.


And the results? Fantastic.


Here’s a quote directly from the book, from a couple that I worked with who were sure their marriage was on the way to Divorce. But instead of divorcing each other, they learned how to communicate more openly regarding their intimate needs as well as dropping resentments from the past.


“The first time my husband restrained me, and used a feather all over my body, he wouldn’t stop gently brushing certain areas of my body that are incredibly sensitive. I was going wild in ecstasy! Just a few weeks before, we had gone to visit a divorce attorney, and here we are now following David‘s program and we could feel the emotional connection growing. We still have a ways to go, but the fact that we’re even touching each other, talking to each other when we haven’t been intimate in over six months, tells you the power of this program.”


And this is not a rarity. Throughout the book, we have so many stories of couples that were frustrated with each other… Had shut down… Had turned to pornography instead of their partner… Or workaholism or alcoholism, and we were able to help many of them, through direct open communication exercises that we teach, to get the relationship back on track.


As long as there’s no serious addiction issues or emotional or physical abuse issues, I encourage all couples who are struggling to check out our new book, and then to reach out to me at the website below where we can work with one on one from anywhere in the world.


Marriages, relationships, are sacred. And we need to treat them as such. Changing our mindset from one of anger, frustration, and a lack of connection… To one of deep intimacy, erotic longings, and more, can help bring any couple back together.


If not now… When?“


(LIMITED TIME! Get David’s new book on love, pdf version, absolutely free right here! https://davidessel.com/free-50-flavors-of-erotic-love-book/ )

David Essel’s work is highly endorsed by individuals like the late Wayne Dyer, and celebrity Jenny Mccarthy says “David Essel is the new leader of the positive thinking movement.”


His work as a counselor and minister has been verified by organizations like Psychology Today, and marriage.com has verified David as one of the top counselors and relationship experts in the world.



To get a copy of David’s book, or to work with him one on one on your intimate relationship from anywhere in the world please visit www.DavidEssel.com



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I am reaching out to all of my former clients, excitedly offering you a free 30 minute session to help you prepare and make 2026 your year! Whatever you’d like to work on, creating new goals, letting go of bad habits… We will rock in 30 minutes and get you moving in a beautiful way! Whether we talk about addictions, relationships, spirituality, finances, mental health, entrepreneurship, grief, weight loss,… For almost 50 years, we’ve covered the above topics and more! Just reply to this email, saying, “I would love my free 30 minute session with David as a former client!“ And my team will set it all up for you.😊 For everyone here who has not been a former client, I want to remind you that we always have gifts for you as well: when you go to the website on the homepage, you’ll see 5 of our top 16 best selling books absolutely free! So even if you never worked with me as a client, you still have this opportunity to get all five books at no charge. By doing this, you will also have an edge and making 2026 your year! I’m excited to help as many people as I can. The whole reason I’m on earth is to do this work, and I know you and I together can help you create a plan of action that will bring you what you desire in the next 365 days ahead! Sending love, David and Team David
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I sit here today, like many people, looking back at the last five years and understanding the struggle that most of us have been going through. Like me, you might be experiencing a holiday season without a loved one Like me you might be experiencing a holiday season that has been preceded by several years of deep trauma, that for many of us is a part of our lives… Even though we wish it wasn’t. In the struggles we’ve all faced, I think it’s so important to figure out what we’re learning about ourselves, what we’re learning about our belief systems, what we’re learning about self-care and how we treat others. Normally people do these posts on January 1 getting everyone ready for the new year, but I wanted to do it today because 2026 is in our hands, it can be complete crap, or it can be something quite different. It really depends on our perspective, our mindset, and how we’re willing to change what isn’t working now into what will work in the near future. Some of us have had incredible health struggles. Others have had relationship break ups. Others have gone through Divorce. Others have gone through financial collapse. Others have tried to figure out the whole world of grieving, after losing a loved one when they’ve never been in that position before. Others have struggled with finding the right job, the right career Others have struggled with deep mental health issues, anxiety, depression, mental issues. So we come to this point, and we can either hold onto the struggles that we’ve gone through over the last five years or we can slowly start to release them and look for tools that are all over the place and how to change our mindset how to change our subconscious mind and how to expect the best after five years of hell for many of us. Is it possible? Hell, yes! But we have to decide now… How we’re going to strengthen our mental health, how we’re going to improve our physical health, how we’re going to improve our relationships, how we’re going to improve our financial situation, how we’re going to improve anything else not mentioned here that has been a stressful experience for us in the past. Many of us will find solace in a deep connection by going deeper into your spiritual or religious experiences. Others will find solace by finding a mentor, counselor, teacher who can assist us because they’ve already been in the situation we’re currently facing. Others will find solace “community“, whether it’s business groups or Recovery, groups, or mastermind groups, community could be the answer for many people who are struggling right now. Others will find solace simply by letting go! By releasing the constant grind… By releasing the Constant need to “have more buy more“ Others will find solace by going deeper into the world of volunteerism, whether it’s pet shelters or reading to the blind, there’s so many different ways that you can start to shift your identity from struggle to service. Others will find solace by going into the creative world, by learning a musical instrument or learning how to draw or paint or woodwork or some other type of hobby that allows them to tap into different parts of the brain to continue to grow as a human being, not to get stuck in the negativity. I have clients that have found great solace in the last six months by completely getting off of all social media. I have clients in the last six months that found solace by completely eliminating anything to do with the news or political conversations. I have clients in the last year that never believe they’d be able to meditate or learn diaphragmatic breathing or learn emotional regulation or lose 50 to 100 pounds and yet they’ve all done it in the last 12 months! But it didn’t happen because they started 30 days ago it’s happened because they started 12 months ago which is the whole purpose of my article here! Now is the time my brothers and sisters to begin the change! Now is the time to start to really learn about the power of your subconscious mind and how to turn it into one of the greatest assets you’ve ever had in your life and I promise you this… If you learn how to master The subconscious mind in 12 months, you’ll be a completely different person potentially in every area of your life! I’ve seen that happen in my life! I’ve seen it happen in thousands of thousands of clients that I’ve worked with over the past 50 years… Their lives completely changed in a year or less! This is why I am Asking you to strongly consider taking the time now up until January 1 to really get yourself going so on January 2 you know what you’re gonna be doing every day in order to shatter the old triggers, to shatter the old fears and insecurities, and to bring you to the place that you want to be financially, relationship, wise, healthwise, mentally, emotionally… I want you in 12 months or less to be exactly where you want to be and I know you can do it because I’ve seen it happen over 1000 times! You have the power to radically change your life right now if you so desire! You have the power to completely turn around anything that has been a trigger, and turn it into a non-event! Believe in yourself! Believe even deeper in yourself! I am wishing you the most amazing radical change if that is what’s necessary in your life, so you can live the life of your desires, your dreams and create at the same time opportunities for others to see what’s possible… You become the role model for success! I’m sending you so much love, so much joy, and a prayer that you take 2026 seriously enough to begin in writing the daily rituals that you will start to follow in order to create what you deserve. With love, David 
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